Frequently Asked Questions

I am serious about protecting my privacy and my safety. With the rise of facial recognition and other methods of surveillance, it’s become more and more important to shield one’s identity online. I assure you that when we finally meet in person, the reveal will be all the more satisfying.

I value both your discretion and mine, and I don’t care to entertain suitors who “kiss and tell.” I also find that many of these reviews tend to be little more than erotic fiction. Therefore, you will not find my profile on review sites. If you do see any reviews of me online, know that they are unauthorized and unlikely to be posted by anyone I’ve actually seen.

I try to keep my process as simple, streamlined, and secure as possible. All suitors new to me must apply via the contact form on my homepage. Only those who have been invited to return are permitted to apply directly via my email. Please do not fill out my contact form until you have fully reviewed my website, have all your information, documentation and deposit ready, and are ready to commit to a booking. The process looks like this:

1) You fill out and submit my contact form, having read all instructions and details.

2) You submit your screening information via email. I have conveniently provided buttons on my contact page which include all relevant fields in the body of the email. All you have to do is fill out answers, attach your ID photo, and send. Please allow up to five business days for a response.

3) If you are approved, I will contact you with instructions for submitting your deposit. Only after deposit is received by me does your date become secured in my calendar. We can then iron out any details in preparation. This should not take more than one to three volleys.

Pease respect my time and do not flood my inbox with idle conversation or questions which can be answered by my website.

That’s all it should take. If you’d like to read more tips clients find useful, check out the button links at the bottom of this page.

Unfortunately, I have found in my experience that these sites have not done their due diligence in preventing bad actors from slipping through. I require screening via a dual-layered method:

1) An unedited photo of you holding your government-issued ID, and

2) Your choice of either employment information (see my contact form for details), or a verifiable reference from a well-established provider with whom you’ve last met within a year.

For your added security, you may email these to my proton address. If you do so with a protonmail account of your own, you can be assured of end-to-end encryption. I keep my digital footprint restricted to locked, password-protected applications on a locked machine, as well as use of a VPN. It is not in my interest to threaten my own reputation by sharing or leaking any of your information. My only interest is to ensure my own safety, and your information will only be used for reputable, private background checks.

If this policy is something you cannot agree to, you will have to find a companion with one that is more suited to your needs.

At one point of time, before I knew any better, I did not require a deposit at all. This became an open invitation to flakes, fantasy bookers, and people who just didn’t value my time. Being Gia is not all there is to me - I am a busy professional with a civilian job and a rich personal life. I have a very limited amount of time with which to schedule these recreational activities, so when someone wastes it, they take my time away from someone more deserving. Deposits ensure that I never need to experience that again. They are now standard in this industry. If you cancel an appointment, this initial contribution goes toward covering my overhead expenses and the time I’ve already spent preparing for our date. Deposits are a very routine cost of doing business across multiple professional industries. It is incumbent upon you to learn how to discern a genuine companion from a fake one.*

For the highest level security on both ends, I accept deposits electronically via my YouPay account. I insist that you practice discretion and refrain from putting anything in the description line of your payment, and especially exclude the word “deposit”…This could result in my accounts being taken away. If you must put a note at all, simply write, “From a friend.” Those who decide to be inappropriate in the notes field will have their funds returned, and will be refused access to me going forward. Thank you for understanding.

*If you would like a guide on what to look for to eliminate AI or scam accounts, refer to the button at the bottom of this page.

I understand schedules can’t always be impervious to an untimely rift. I also want to us to be at our best for each other, and planning ahead is necessary for that.

Since the pandemic has wrought additional challenges, this adds another element to be conscientious of. Maintaining my health is a sacrosanct boundary for me. If you become ill, even with what you think might be a cold or flu, I insist you postpone for at least 10 days from your first date of symptoms. I do not enjoy turning away an excited suitor because they’ve thoughtlessly shown up in a potentially contagious condition, and I will not hesitate to do so. But if you are honorable enough to contact me ahead of time, I will not hold such misfortune against you, and may even be willing to entertain carrying over your deposit for a rescheduled date.

For cancellations of one week or more prior, you may still be given an opportunity to reschedule with a portion of your deposit intact. Cancellations of 48-25 hours incur an inconvenience fee of 50% of the total contribution. For cancellations of 24 hours or less, the total contribution amount is due.

Withholding these fees will result in permanent removal of your access to me going forward, and others will be warned of your poor behavior.

When you arrive, please bring the balance due in cash, and deliver it discreetly in a plain, unmarked envelope. If you are meeting me in public and wish to keep a low profile, it is suggested you contain it within a small gift bag, greeting card, a favorite album or vintage magazine, or other creative method. However you decide to do so, getting it out of the way right away will have us both more relaxed and ready to focus on getting closer.

I understand that meeting someone you plan to share such time with comes with a fair share of risk, especially for those who have limited to no experience embarking on such a thing. Upon request, I am willing to offer a brief texting session or phone call of up to 20 minutes for a small fee of $40. I find this is usually enough to answer your questions and for you to get a sense of chemistry. For privacy reasons, I do not offer video calls at this time.

Nervousness is natural in these situations. I get just as nervous meeting new people for the first time. The only way to truly disappoint me is to not put your best foot forward. The main things I am drawn to in a person are emotional maturity, kindness and gentle manners. My attraction to you is related specifically to how safe you make me feel. No matter what kind of date we have planned, show up well groomed and in good health and hygiene. Treat the waiter well and tip generously. Like many women, I prefer to be courted. In short: If you want a Girlfriend Experience, treat me like a girlfriend you care to impress. Composure is always in style. These are standards to which someone of any gender, status, ability, race or creed is capable of meeting. The rest, as they say, is window dressing.

My mother wisely raised me to be the kind of woman who can fit in anywhere. This means I’d enjoy myself just as much on your arm at a rock show as I would at a symphony, a state fair as much as a billion dollar fundraiser. Most of my interests revolve around the arts, and I love when others share their favorites with me. So if you enjoy concerts, films, galleries or theater, I am definitely your girl. Of course I adore a night at the opera and a high-pinkie culinary experience as much as the next socialite. But the most memorable rendezvous I’ve enjoyed lately involved our plans being eschewed altogether on account of the rain, an unforgettable laughter-filled afternoon with nothing but a pot of jasmine tea and each other. The main ingredients will always be you and me.

I am personally not inclined to make time for these things. I prefer to keep my connection to this world less conspicuous, and I only devote a very limited amount of myself to being available to suitors. I do not sell virtual experiences, custom content, or subscriptions, nor do I wish to collaborate with other creators on theirs. Please do not contact me offering such proposals.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to tour these days, so if you want me in your city, you will have to bring me to yours.* See my Investments section for pricing and requirements in planning a Fly Me To You experience.

*Due to recent developments with international travel, I can only agree to travel domestically within the U.S. at this time.

I am no stranger to the pleasure of a Cuddle Puddle…it’s a great way to maximize the fun we can have together! I have recently come out of a long term exclusive arrangement, with a new brand which suits me better than ever. So while I am still working on getting re-acquainted with the current crop of professionals, I appreciate when someone sponsors a getting-to-know-you meeting for me to become familiar with others they have in mind. Whether it’s another provider or your significant other, I ask that you not surprise me (or them) with any unexpected meetings.

My requirements for couples include explicit advance consent and screening of all parties involved, and an extra fee of 150 per hour.

If you are planning on including other providers, you will be expected to invest according to the rate of the provider with the highest fee.

Once again, advance consent for all parties in both scenarios is non-negotiable.

Having just stepped back into seeing new clients, I have yet to establish a social media presence under this brand. Once I do, I will include those here in my website. Until then, you may find an aggregate of everything Gia in my Allmylinks page.

Whether you’re new to this or just want to improve your experience, you can find a lot of excellent advice in the links at the bottom of this page. (Opinions shared within the articles within are those of the writer and not necessarily reflective of my own policies.)

We are about to embark on something bold together. It takes courage to book a professional companion, but as the old Latin proverb says: Fortune favors the bold!

I am so excited to get to know you. 💋